tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4840139223069042184.post312506371439075294..comments2023-08-10T08:52:33.958-04:00Comments on DATERVIEW: Waiting...Not WinningPretty Young Thinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16998368749232708080noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4840139223069042184.post-52250559942610811972011-05-02T16:03:09.148-04:002011-05-02T16:03:09.148-04:00You know, I'm SO THERE with you, sistah. Serio...You know, I'm SO THERE with you, sistah. Seriously, this whole dating nonsense sucks the suckiest suck that ever sucked. And I find that so baffling. You go out, meet a nice guy, have great chemistry. Then nice boy either falls off the face of the world or starts doing the ol' fade out. Is it because he's met another shiny object that catches his eye? THE HELL!?!? <br /><br />Anyway, don't despair. There is a nice boy out there for you; sometimes it's just a matter of kissing a few frogs. Also, I totally had the same thought this weekend about sleeping in with a boy and having makeout sessions for hours. I just want to fast-forward through all the BS!mypixiebloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09135461083810124483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4840139223069042184.post-81827368019054065982011-04-29T13:54:06.715-04:002011-04-29T13:54:06.715-04:00Good comments.
As a dude, I can say you're p...Good comments. <br /><br />As a dude, I can say you're probably right- he doesn't sound that into you. <br /><br />Take it from a guy who has been rejected by his fair share of hotties... it's worth waiting for the right one!<br /><br />You know, but get laid in the meantime.Calebhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17056314139651782511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4840139223069042184.post-73332140256980616082011-04-29T13:49:38.135-04:002011-04-29T13:49:38.135-04:00As trite as this sounds, it's worth waiting fo...As trite as this sounds, it's worth waiting for someone who excites you and adores you and deserves you and vice versa. He's out there. Don't give up. We're all rooting for you. :)Vapid Vixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08699876620805731017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4840139223069042184.post-63019160642693553772011-04-28T15:44:26.547-04:002011-04-28T15:44:26.547-04:00I'm new here, but I sooo know this feeling! I ...I'm new here, but I sooo know this feeling! I read your post and definitely felt like I've been in your shoes. And, as a recently single gal, my stomach turns at the thought of going back to dating, especially online, and dealing with all this. Nothing is as frustrating as a good date with all that connection that's followed up with... nothing. or, not enough something. it's stupid, but we know it's true: if a guy is interested, he shows it. lame and sexist, yes, and it leaves us waiting by the phone, but there it is. <br />Don't go crazy over a guy who isn't showing you he wants to see you again, that's my only advice. Say Next! and move on. Ignoring the red flags doesn't make them go away, only helps them to pile up.Larissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07934047403265281676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4840139223069042184.post-26670467357741249782011-04-28T09:58:11.419-04:002011-04-28T09:58:11.419-04:00You're both right. I know it gets better but ...You're both right. I know it gets better but I think being on the brink of officially being single for a year and having perhaps a handful, if even, of guys I saw more then once is grating on me.<br /><br />I'm trying to be as upbeat and positive about all of this as I can but really after a year of not having someone to go out with, no dates to weddings, no one to snuggle with at night or wake up with in the morning, no make out sessions or sex...I'm going CRAZY!!!!!<br /><br />I'll confess I did txt Rival yesterday and I felt like before I even hit send he was responding. We went back and forth a couple of times then that was it. I'm bored. It was such a wonderful date but his follow up is completely lackluster and frankly I'm disappointed. He stressed how he plans to be friends with someone first and take things really slow...perhaps this is his version of that? Blah fucking blah...I'm not too sure i'm on board with that.<br /><br />Thank you as always for your support...I'm going to check my inbox and respond to some of the messages there...with the Royal Wedding tomorrow perhaps my Prince will finally decide to show up.Pretty Young Thinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16998368749232708080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4840139223069042184.post-2379281450002555232011-04-28T05:43:11.512-04:002011-04-28T05:43:11.512-04:00I say if boy wanted to call he would have. Next! ...I say if boy wanted to call he would have. Next! Don't waste time on someone who isn't making time for you. And you can use this time to find someone who will text you ;)Lifebeginsat30tyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10414552176251539850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4840139223069042184.post-79001978559386086682011-04-27T16:01:18.031-04:002011-04-27T16:01:18.031-04:00Ohhhh how I've been there! Part of why I'...Ohhhh how I've been there! Part of why I'm not ready to start the online dating again. I make myself over the is he/isn't he going to call and do I actually want him to?<br /><br />I've also been through the everyone else getting engaged thing to, and am now on to baby announcements. I seriously don't think I've gone a week without someone saying they're expecting. I loved weddings so it didn't bother me as much, but it's hard not to compare where others are in their lives to where you are. Just no, it gets better!Hutchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05675915108416510294noreply@blogger.com